Modern Marriage for Beta Males

I am writing this because of how common the Modern Marriage (M.M.) really is. So, whether you are first starting in your M. M., or you’re a “pro”, I wanted to share my experiences, so as to help everyone better understand the male’s role in the M.M and how great it truly is. Also, everything I discuss are things you can research and find proof of for yourself.

There are many reasons why couples engage in this lifestyle, but whatever the reason, they’ve decided to embark on a beneficial journey that only the MM can really offer. There are also different variations of the M.M., such as:

  • being “pussy-free”
  • not ever being brought to orgasm
  • permanently caged
  • fighting masturbation
  • orgasm denial
  • having no sexual encounters or activities with his wife
  • She wishes someone else to be her sexual partner, or baby-giver
  • or any combination of those variables.

Every scenario varies for couples living the M.M. lifestyle, for whatever reason.

What is a Modern Marriage?

To break it down, it is this:

  • A logical and natural approach which keeps everything centeredcompletely around the woman and her ability to understandably and rightfully act the natural needs and urgency-of selection ALL women have.
  • The freedom of an open-non-monogamous-relationship for the wife only, to engage in various encounters outside of the marriage, with her husband’s full knowledge, approval, and even encouragement. 
  • The ability for the female to choose her marriage partner, her sexual partner(s), and the partner who will be the lineage of her family, whether these partners are the same, or different, it does not matter.
  • Allows the husband to maintain his proper role as sole provider and caregiver, as well as ensuring that the husband remains loyal and faithful to his wife in all regards.

Sometimes, a wife may feel it necessary for a husband to be caged. When this happens, it is commonplace that he not be un-caged until certain amount of time has elapsed. In other cases, the wife may feel it is appropriate that the husband never be un-caged.

Male chastity does go hand-in-hand in many Modern Marriages, and it is very important for the male to be supportive of the wife in every decision she feels should be made. If she feels it is better her husband not see her naked, or that her husband should not touch her, then so be it.

If the wife decides that contact between her and her husband should never be made. In the M.M., the male needs to understand that whatever the wife decides, it is for the best—her body, her choice, her right. Remember to always be supportive, loving, loyal, and her best friend. Nothing else matters.

What if she wants a family?

This is a good thing. She wants to have a family with you. Now, this doesn’t mean that she wants you to be the one she has a family with. Just because you are her husband doesn’t mean it is automatically your right.

In today’s M.M., being the husband means it is your right to care for your wife and the family she chooses to have. Also, in a M.M., it’s the women who have the choice with whom they wish. Especially if you are a long-term-caged husband.

It is completely normal, and natural that women have the need for raising a family, and it is completely logical for the wife seek out whomever she wishes. And what an honor that is, that another man would give your beautiful wife a family for her and you to raise. Such a wonderful and beautiful gift.

I think it is important for us guys that we stop to think that she is “our” wife. In fact we are her “guy”. We are her sole provider, caregiver and faithful life partner. The open-non-monogamous-relationship is for my wife only.