Hot Wives Finding Men Online with Husband’s Approval

If you’re like many women who’ve been married for awhile, you might forget what it feels like to be “wanted” and engaged by a quality dating partner. This is true even if your husband regularly validates and compliments you–it’s just different.

As a result, you may wonder where (or even if) you’ll be able to find men who are to your liking. You’re probably worried those awesome guys won’t want you, and that you’ll be stuck with the gross guys. You may especially think the population will be lonely, unsuccessful, out of shape, or weirdly perverted guys, who spend all day on the web looking at pictures of naked women. Maybe even in their grandma’s basement!

What you’ll find once you get started in a “lifestyle community site” is a host of supportive, put-together men, women, and couples all around the country, who just so happen to be fairly likeminded about sexuality.

Unless you live in a rural area, you’re also likely to find a surprising array of men. Men who will want to be with you, even if you don’t believe it. Sure, plenty of guys who use a dick pic as a greeting card, and only say “hey” in their message (you should just block those guys as soon as they pop up). But, you’ll find men with good jobs, homes, snappy wardrobes, goals in life, fun personalities, and yes, big dicks (if you care about these things).

And you’re going to have to say no! To them! They’re not saying no to you, you’re telling them that YOU don’t have the availability left! It’s the opposite of what you might be worried about! All the while, you have these really neat guys validating you.

And why would such guys be available? There are plenty of possibilities. Divorced when he was younger. Too busy to seriously date and get married to begin with. Committed bachelor. In an open marriage. You name the scenario, it exists.

A whole other post will address the basic keys of safe play (it’s actually pretty simple), but don’t be afraid of the buildup leading to verification and making arrangements.

Remember the key point of all of this: YOU ARE DESIRABLE. YOU ARE WANTED. Not just by the people who “have to” want or like you, but also the people who owe you nothing.

In the end, don’t be afraid to feel a little extra special.